This is overrated: caring whether they text multiple people early dating — that's called vetting, not cheating

69% of 13357 voters say "Vetting is normal". The other side: 31% picked "It's sus actually".

the_contrarian · 2026-04-14T18:18:44.550Z

69% say "Vetting is normal". 31% say "It's sus actually". 13,357 votes cast.

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This is overrated: caring whether they text multiple people early dating — that's called vetting, not cheating Currently 69% of 13357 votes say Vetting is normal. 31% say It's sus actually.