Dating debates
App rules, date rules, group-chat rules.
Active this weekThe truth about people who say 'relationship isn't my priority right now' is they mean 'you aren't my priority' 😬
48% unmask them52% could be true17,200 votesVote →
Change my mind: someone refusing to dance is gonna be weird about physical intimacy 🎭
39% Probably true61% Completely unrelated16,081 votesVote →
💔 Unpopular opinion: if they can't take criticism without getting defensive by month 2, you've lost
57% Red flag move43% They'll grow16,000 votesVote →
Here's what no one tells you: having different weekend vibes doesn't mean you're incompatible 🎵
29% Totally true71% Actually matters15,801 votesVote →
Hot take: having 'no drama' in your bio is an automatic red flag 🚩
71% Instant red flag29% Just setting boundary15,801 votesVote →
Hot take: keeping 'just in case' contacts is worse than being alone 💔
59% That's the one41% Better than nothing15,390 votesVote →
This is bigger than people think: how they handle rejection 💭
56% Says everything44% Not that deep15,168 votesVote →
If you disagree, explain why: dating someone with the opposite political views dooms it
54% It fails46% Can work15,138 votesVote →
Unpopular opinion: wanting to know their entire dating history before intimacy is just insecurity
39% Totally fair61% That's valid15,081 votesVote →
The truth about people saying 'I need time to figure things out' they're scared commitment 😴
55% They're scared45% They're genuine15,023 votesVote →
💭 If you disagree, explain why: how they treat service workers = how they'll treat you eventually
65% Spot on35% That's unfair15,000 votesVote →
Here's what no one tells you: if someone says 'I'm complicated' they're usually just self-aware about being toxic 🚩
88% facts12% unfair15,000 votesVote →
Stop pretending: someone who texts their group chat way more than they text you isn't prioritizing you 💬
81% exact truth19% too harsh15,000 votesVote →
This doesn't get enough credit: someone who admits they have anxious attachment style upfront 🤝
47% Credit worthy53% Still sus15,000 votesVote →
🚩 Hot take: people who move really fast are always love-bombing not actually in love
62% Love bomb38% Real feelings14,971 votesVote →
💔 This is overrated: worrying they're talking to other people early dating
51% Worry less49% Valid concern14,970 votesVote →
Change my mind: someone who flakes once should get a second chance 🚩
70% One strike warning30% Two strikes rule14,953 votesVote →
Most people are wrong about what 'let's keep it casual' actually signals after three months 💬
51% They're scared49% They're honest14,773 votesVote →
Change my mind: wanting them to remember small details you mentioned is just setting yourself up for disappointment 💭
56% Realistic expectation44% Sign they care14,700 votesVote →
If you disagree, explain why: matching with someone's best friend should be off limits 🚫
60% Definitely off-limits40% If single, fair game14,652 votesVote →
Being the person who always initiates physical touch is better than waiting around 💫
58% Better to initiate42% Just wait it out14,583 votesVote →
💔 Unpopular opinion: asking them to unfollow their ex is the real red flag, not them keeping them there
56% Facts, leave them alone44% No way, unfollow is normal14,568 votesVote →
If you disagree, explain why: matching someone whose entire Instagram aesthetic is completely different from yours predicts nothing about chemistry
51% Wrong, it matters49% Right, doesn't mean anything14,558 votesVote →
Change my mind: dating someone who still has dating apps installed even after you're exclusive isn't actually cheating, it's just insurance
75% That's sus25% Understandable14,523 votesVote →
🚩 Hot take: complaining about being broke constantly while spending recklessly is telling on yourself
55% Self-sabotage energy45% We all cope different14,400 votesVote →
If you disagree, explain why: loving their parents before loving them is a red flag 🚨
88% Red flag12% Normal or endearing14,382 votesVote →
💬 Wanting them to say 'my partner' not 'my person' shows you care about labels
45% You're insecure55% Fair distinction14,286 votesVote →
Unpopular opinion: dating someone who constantly brings up their exes is actually a green flag
24% Green flag76% Major red flag14,268 votesVote →
Unpopular opinion: matching someone the day after their breakup is just smart timing
59% Smart move41% Opportunistic14,233 votesVote →
🎯 This is overrated: needing them to like your favorite band
51% Totally overrated49% Music bond matters14,232 votesVote →