Stop pretending that wanting someone to chase you isn't just insecurity in disguise

51% of 12433 voters say "Nah it's healthy". The other side: 49% picked "It's insecurity".

lucy_h · 2026-04-14T02:42:19.823Z

49% say "It's insecurity". 51% say "Nah it's healthy". 12,433 votes cast.

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Stop pretending that wanting someone to chase you isn't just insecurity in disguise Currently 49% of 12433 votes say It's insecurity. 51% say Nah it's healthy.