💬 Stop pretending: saying 'I love you' in the first month just means you're scared they'll leave

85% of 8370 voters say "Fear, not love". The other side: 15% picked "Real feelings happen fast".

olivia_r · 2026-04-13T21:30:21.891Z

85% say "Fear, not love". 15% say "Real feelings happen fast". 8,370 votes cast.

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💬 Stop pretending: saying 'I love you' in the first month just means you're scared they'll leave Currently 85% of 8370 votes say Fear, not love. 15% say Real feelings happen fast.