It's time we admit: keeping a backup person while dating someone = emotional cheating

83% of 12403 voters say "Actually cheating". The other side: 17% picked "Not that deep".

maya_p · 2026-04-14T02:33:46.758Z

83% say "Actually cheating". 17% say "Not that deep". 12,403 votes cast.

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It's time we admit: keeping a backup person while dating someone = emotional cheating Currently 83% of 12403 votes say Actually cheating. 17% say Not that deep.