I'd rather date someone slower to open up than someone who says 'I love you' in week two

51% of 11503 voters say "Nah fast is fine". The other side: 49% picked "Slow burn > love bombing".

wait_actually · 2026-04-14T02:43:53.578Z

49% say "Slow burn > love bombing". 51% say "Nah fast is fine". 11,503 votes cast.

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I'd rather date someone slower to open up than someone who says 'I love you' in week two Currently 49% of 11503 votes say Slow burn > love bombing. 51% say Nah fast is fine.