Change my mind: you can tell if someone's serious by whether they put effort into first date planning

50% of 9156 voters say "Effort = serious". The other side: 50% picked "Some people just aren't planners".

joe_r · 2026-04-14T18:30:16.627Z

50% say "Effort = serious". 50% say "Some people just aren't planners". 9,156 votes cast.

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Change my mind: you can tell if someone's serious by whether they put effort into first date planning Currently 50% of 9156 votes say Effort = serious. 50% say Some people just aren't planners.