Unpopular opinion: you literally can't change who you're attracted to, so stop pretending you can force it

51% of 7638 voters say "Attraction can grow". The other side: 49% picked "It's fixed from day one".

dan_p · 2026-04-14T17:09:57.523Z

51% say "Attraction can grow". 49% say "It's fixed from day one". 7,638 votes cast.

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Unpopular opinion: you literally can't change who you're attracted to, so stop pretending you can force it Currently 51% of 7638 votes say Attraction can grow. 49% say It's fixed from day one.