Unpopular opinion: if your partner spends $500 monthly on self-care but won't invest in dates with you, that's a priority problem 💔

58% of 7124 voters say "That's a red flag". The other side: 42% picked "Their money, their choice".

nyc_takes · 2026-04-14T07:14:27.235Z

58% say "That's a red flag". 42% say "Their money, their choice". 7,124 votes cast.

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Unpopular opinion: if your partner spends $500 monthly on self-care but won't invest in dates with you, that's a priority problem 💔 Currently 58% of 7124 votes say That's a red flag. 42% say Their money, their choice.