This is overrated: feeling bad about asking your partner to contribute financially if they're unemployed

52% of 6543 voters say "Ask them". The other side: 48% picked "Let them slide".

overthought_it · 2026-04-14T12:51:53.856Z

52% say "Ask them". 48% say "Let them slide". 6,543 votes cast.

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This is overrated: feeling bad about asking your partner to contribute financially if they're unemployed Currently 52% of 6543 votes say Ask them. 48% say Let them slide.