This is overrated: couples who completely merge their identities 💔

59% of 15135 voters say "Actually pretty sweet". The other side: 41% picked "Lose yourself fast".

kate_m · 2026-04-13T21:30:41.086Z

59% say "Actually pretty sweet". 41% say "Lose yourself fast". 15,135 votes cast.

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This is overrated: couples who completely merge their identities 💔 Currently 59% of 15135 votes say Actually pretty sweet. 41% say Lose yourself fast.