This is overrated: constantly reassuring your partner about insecurities 💔

51% of 14323 voters say "Enabling codependency". The other side: 49% picked "Shows you care".

mike_t99 · 2026-04-14T16:59:31.464Z

51% say "Enabling codependency". 49% say "Shows you care". 14,323 votes cast.

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This is overrated: constantly reassuring your partner about insecurities 💔 Currently 51% of 14323 votes say Enabling codependency. 49% say Shows you care.