The truth about asking your partner's salary early is you're just vetting for stability

58% of 14125 voters say "Fair to vet". The other side: 42% picked "That's shallow".

gymrat_uk · 2026-04-14T17:49:08.925Z

58% say "Fair to vet". 42% say "That's shallow". 14,125 votes cast.

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The truth about asking your partner's salary early is you're just vetting for stability Currently 58% of 14125 votes say Fair to vet. 42% say That's shallow.