If you disagree, explain why: saying 'I miss you' to your ex is self-sabotage no matter when you say it

52% of 8412 voters say "Sometimes you just mean it". The other side: 48% picked "Total self-sabotage".

genz_energy · 2026-04-14T07:22:38.660Z

48% say "Total self-sabotage". 52% say "Sometimes you just mean it". 8,412 votes cast.

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If you disagree, explain why: saying 'I miss you' to your ex is self-sabotage no matter when you say it Currently 48% of 8412 votes say Total self-sabotage. 52% say Sometimes you just mean it.