🎯 Hot take: telling your friends 'no' without explaining is actually boundaries, not being cold

52% of 13255 voters say "It's healthy". The other side: 48% picked "That's rude".

real_sarah_k · 2026-04-14T18:06:36.337Z

52% say "It's healthy". 48% say "That's rude". 13,255 votes cast.

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🎯 Hot take: telling your friends 'no' without explaining is actually boundaries, not being cold Currently 52% of 13255 votes say It's healthy. 48% say That's rude.