Hot take: expecting daily check-ins from your partner is giving anxiety disorder energy

58% of 13197 voters say "It's controlling". The other side: 42% picked "That's just love".

overthought_it · 2026-04-14T17:33:00.018Z

58% say "It's controlling". 42% say "That's just love". 13,197 votes cast.

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Hot take: expecting daily check-ins from your partner is giving anxiety disorder energy Currently 58% of 13197 votes say It's controlling. 42% say That's just love.