Change my mind: watching your partner spend their whole paycheck on their hobby while you stress about rent is the exact same thing as financial abuse 💔

53% of 14200 voters say "Not the same". The other side: 47% picked "Same thing".

sam_w88 · 2026-04-13T12:17:32.792Z

47% say "Same thing". 53% say "Not the same". 14,200 votes cast.

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Change my mind: watching your partner spend their whole paycheck on their hobby while you stress about rent is the exact same thing as financial abuse 💔 Currently 47% of 14200 votes say Same thing. 53% say Not the same.