Change my mind: the 'spark' is just novelty and dies in every relationship

65% of 13979 voters say "It always fades". The other side: 35% picked "Spark is essential".

kate_m · 2026-04-13T10:29:09.564Z

35% say "Spark is essential". 65% say "It always fades". 13,979 votes cast.

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Change my mind: the 'spark' is just novelty and dies in every relationship Currently 35% of 13979 votes say Spark is essential. 65% say It always fades.