Change my mind: staying in a 'stable' relationship when you're unhappy is actually just selfish

72% of 11360 voters say "Yeah that's selfish". The other side: 28% picked "Stability matters".

wait_actually · 2026-04-14T07:37:12.377Z

72% say "Yeah that's selfish". 28% say "Stability matters". 11,360 votes cast.

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Change my mind: staying in a 'stable' relationship when you're unhappy is actually just selfish Currently 72% of 11360 votes say Yeah that's selfish. 28% say Stability matters.