Change my mind: if your partner won't go 50/50 on a gift for your shared friend, they don't respect your values 💳

72% of 12750 voters say "Total red flag". The other side: 28% picked "Grow up".

touched_grass_once · 2026-04-13T21:37:55.441Z

72% say "Total red flag". 28% say "Grow up". 12,750 votes cast.

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Change my mind: if your partner won't go 50/50 on a gift for your shared friend, they don't respect your values 💳 Currently 72% of 12750 votes say Total red flag. 28% say Grow up.