Change my mind: if your partner prioritizes spending on themselves over investing in the relationship, they don't actually value you 💔

54% of 8765 voters say "They don't value you". The other side: 46% picked "That's too harsh".

toronto_eh · 2026-04-14T07:16:15.067Z

54% say "They don't value you". 46% say "That's too harsh". 8,765 votes cast.

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Change my mind: if your partner prioritizes spending on themselves over investing in the relationship, they don't actually value you 💔 Currently 54% of 8765 votes say They don't value you. 46% say That's too harsh.